I have been yelled at everyday since the 7th grade. there has not been 1 day that i have not been yelled at. this has negatively affected me. From being stressed to even not growing! If you guy's didn't know, stress produces cortisol which hinders other hormones...including human growth hormones needed for growth. my approximate estimate for my height under the growth charts was 5'11 - 6 foot! now being short also stresses me out! all this is due to my parents yelling and i cannot take it anymore. sometimes i feel like smashing things, but i must refrain. please help me.
11th Grade.
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Answer by erudite
embrace their yelling and yell back, so that you may let out some of your anger. Pray
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talk to someone you can trust. a friend, a teacher, the school therapist/social worker.
ReplyDeleteu stop them yelling by listening in the first place
ReplyDeleteA lot of teens have this problem... I just bought ear plugs, mine suck but i'm sure you can find ones that really work. Also, listen to music that you like. =] And stop caring, this might sound funny but the way that the teenagers in tv shows usually handle yelling/psycho parents is completely pro. It's this nonchalant, humourful, "so above them" state of mind... it really gets you through the day. you'll move out soon enough anyway.
ReplyDeleteThis happened to me and now I'm stuck with anger management probs all the time but tlkin to Someone you trust helps
ReplyDeleteWhen they start arguing, leave the house for a while. Go hangout with a friend, or take the dog for a walk. Be sure to leave a note, so they don't worry.
ReplyDeleteTell your fav teacher. They are trained to know what to do. I can call cps for you- any state.
ReplyDelete1st of all, maybe you think people/parents can talk anyway they see fit each day. Turns out many parents are abusers. Actually they are not trying to be tough to make you better or help- they are tricking you. This goes for people at school as well. Words are abuse also.
There are 3 types of abusive people/parents. Some hit the bottle. Some hit you. And some run their mouths and put you down. THEY are sick and feel great on being mean, and thats the only reason they do it. They are wrong about everything. The typical abuser is close-minded, self-righteous and was also abused themself. Use defense and read many sites on verbal abuse etc. They tear you down to build themselves up. Youre being abused and tricked- bottom line.
Abuse causes pain mistaken as Mental Problems. BP OCD etc. Psychiatrists commit fraud and all disorders are a hoax. For chemical imbalances NO test exists. You dont have what shrinks say you have.
Jesus name and forgiving others who are wrong is important along with avoiding them.
Contact- Child Protective Services online or tell your teacher. Your parents need to forgive the past.
Learn the truth, forgive, and Get Away from them. Read many many sites under "emotional abuse" and "dealing with bullies".
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